No contradiction there whatsoever! If you think that being an alpha male means being selfish then you don't really understand being an alpha male! As an adult human, being an alpha male is about being a leader, a protector, and provider. If you think it's all about being a testosterone laiden competition gorilla, IMHO, you need to raise the maturity level of your concept and understanding of what being an alpha male in the human species is."not selfish ... just alpha-male "
Arghh, there is it again the contradiction in just one paragraph .